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#mental-health 2025-11-10

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  • cagri_curious — my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing 11:14
  • coa_or_cope — i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me 12:02
  • coa_or_cope — for the archive the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight 12:49
  • comment_fatigue — the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards 15:02
  • coa_or_cope — you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story 15:06
CF

feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel

CF

grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life

how did people get through a long plateau without giving up entirely

CC

my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing

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CC

for the archive if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it

if all you managed today was the dose and some water, that counts and i mean that, not advice obviously

comments about my body were harder to take than any side effect and nobody warns you about it

CF

somebody said the easy way thing to me and i just said it was not easy and changed the subject. it worked fine

i told my family at month four rather than week one, and the timing is what made it go well

CO

the dose escalation nerves, does anyone have a routine that helps with them

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me

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CO

the disorienting bit for me was realising how much of my day had been spent thinking about the next meal

CO

for the archive the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight

Cited study
Effect of Continued Weekly Semaglutide vs Placebo on Weight Loss Maintenance (STEP 4)
JAMA · 2021
The withdrawal arm. This is the trial to read before you plan to stop.
TT

somebody thanked me a year later for something i barely remember saying, and that is why i still read this every day, for what its worth

CO

coming back to this is anyone else more anxious about running out than about any side effect

TT

you are not the only person in here who has felt that, and i say that as somebody who was certain they were

thats grief honestly

CO

i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with

CF

hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there

CO

i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it

CF

the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards

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BB

the fraud feeling faded for me somewhere around the point i had kept it off longer than i took to lose it

CO

you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story

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BF

the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely

it does lift, still working it out

nobody in this room thinks less of you for needing a medication. genuinely nobody, for what its worth

i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number

the quiet is strange isnt it

the food noise going quiet is the thing people are least prepared for. i sat in the kitchen at 8pm not knowing what i was for