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#mental-health 2026-02-28

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  • see_a_clinician — hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there, thats one data point 20:07
  • lot_number_lou — the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely 20:18
  • shame_and_meds — the fraud feeling faded for me somewhere around the point i had kept it off longer than i took to lose it 20:50
SA

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me

SA

hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there, thats one data point

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LN

the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely

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please talk to somebody

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while im here does the quiet in your head ever feel like a loss rather than a relief

it does lift

SA

the shame eased when i stopped thinking of it as a shortcut and started thinking of it as treatment

SN

the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight

SA

the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards, someone check my working

youre not alone in that

SA

we are a chat channel. good company, not clinicians, and it matters that we keep saying so

did anyone else grieve food a bit

SA

the fraud feeling faded for me somewhere around the point i had kept it off longer than i took to lose it

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SA

i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with

the disorienting bit for me was realising how much of my day had been spent thinking about the next meal

SA

im at month 16 and doing well and feel strangely sad about it, is that a thing

my mood dipped around week five and lifted by about week ten. i cannot tell you why either of those happened

im ashamed of needing a medication for this and i cant seem to shake it

SN

i built a whole personality around being the one who cooks and now i barely eat, does that pass