does anyone else find compliments make them want to hide
#mental-health 2026-04-10
- lipase_lore — does anyone else find compliments make them want to hide 12:43
- identity_shift — how do you stop reading every twinge as something serious 13:21
- identity_shift — flat is the word i used too. not sad exactly, just less colour in things for a while 13:41
- identity_shift — if all you managed today was the dose and some water, that counts and i mean that 17:45
you are not the only person in here who has felt that, and i say that as somebody who was certain they were
thats grief honestly
ok so it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things
i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me
i came back at month 14 to say thank you and got a much warmer response than i expected
ok so somebody thanked me a year later for something i barely remember saying, and that is why i still read this every day
it does lift
nobody says you took the easy way about a blood pressure tablet, and i keep that sentence ready for when i need it
how do you stop reading every twinge as something serious
that was me too
im at month 25 and doing well and feel strangely sad about it, is that a thing
thinking of you
flat is the word i used too. not sad exactly, just less colour in things for a while
did the flatness lift on its own or did people have to do something about it
i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with
thank you for saying it
is anyone else more anxious about running out than about any side effect
anxious every time i go up a dose, is that a known thing or just me
comments about my body were harder to take than any side effect and nobody warns you about it, for what its worth
that counts
the running out anxiety is real and worth naming. i keep a spare month in the fridge and i sleep better for it
were not clinicians
is it normal to feel more emotional generally on this
my mood dipped around week five and lifted by about week ten. i cannot tell you why either of those happened
the quiet is strange isnt it
while im here we are a chat channel. good company, not clinicians, and it matters that we keep saying so
i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it
my partner was not pleased at first and came round. what changed it was my blood pressure, not any argument i made, take that with a pinch of salt
my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing
same at week 5
the shame eased when i stopped thinking of it as a shortcut and started thinking of it as treatment
[edited]while im here how do you deal with somebody saying you took the easy way
grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life
does anyone talk to somebody professionally about this side of it
feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel
you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story
if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it
update from 6 months ago: the flatness lifted, slowly, and i did not have to change anything to make it
if all you managed today was the dose and some water, that counts and i mean that
did anyone else grieve food a bit
the dose escalation nerves, does anyone have a routine that helps with them
i feel like a fraud reading the wins channel, does that go away
somebody said the easy way thing to me and i just said it was not easy and changed the subject. it worked fine
i told my family at month four rather than week one, and the timing is what made it go well
i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number
the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards
glad youre back
mood dipped hard around week 24, did that lift for anyone
slightly off topic but the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely
i get anxious the night before a dose increase, so i take it in the morning now and sleep first
quick one somebody said the easy way thing to me and i just said it was not easy and changed the subject. it worked fine