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#mental-health 2026-04-13

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  • tb500_tobias — i built a whole personality around being the one who cooks and now i barely eat, does that pass 14:53
  • eighteen_months — my mood dipped around week five and lifted by about week ten. i cannot tell you why either of those happened 15:05
  • vale_vials — i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it 17:58
FN

motivation has collapsed since the scale stopped moving, has anyone been here

i told my family at month four rather than week one, and the timing is what made it go well

i keep waiting for it to stop working and the waiting itself is exhausting

the food noise going quiet is the thing people are least prepared for. i sat in the kitchen at 8pm not knowing what i was for

QH

you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story

QH

i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with
i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt

SS

somebody thanked me a year later for something i barely remember saying, and that is why i still read this every day, from memory

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thank you for saying it

i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number

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that counts

OO

how do you deal with somebody saying you took the easy way

VB

Purity check: no report on file for lot D-0718. Nothing logged either way.

SS

my partner was not pleased at first and came round. what changed it was my blood pressure, not any argument i made

OO

right so i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt

OO

anxious every time i go up a dose, is that a known thing or just me

VV

ok so the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards, thats just me

T5

genuine question it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things

T5

is anyone else more anxious about running out than about any side effect

FN

follow up feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel

T5

i built a whole personality around being the one who cooks and now i barely eat, does that pass

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EM

the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely

we are a chat channel. good company, not clinicians, and it matters that we keep saying so

T5

i read every twinge as something serious for the first three months and it does settle down

slightly off topic but if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it

CP

the dose escalation nerves, does anyone have a routine that helps with them

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HH

the running out anxiety is real and worth naming. i keep a spare month in the fridge and i sleep better for it

T5

nobody in this room thinks less of you for needing a medication. genuinely nobody

T5

for the archive my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing

coming back after 10 months to say thank you, is that alright to do in here

T5

grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life, still working it out

HH

how did people get through a long plateau without giving up entirely

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VV

i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it

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