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#mental-health 2026-06-21

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  • tallinn_taper — right so how do you tell family youre on this without getting a lecture back 08:50
  • bac_water_bill — sorry to jump in we are a chat channel. good company, not clinicians, and it matters that we keep saying so 10:17
  • identity_shift — you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story, ill dig out the number 12:43
  • identity_shift — does the quiet in your head ever feel like a loss rather than a relief 13:08
  • thirty_min_wait — motivation has collapsed since the scale stopped moving, has anyone been here 13:13
VB

Inter-lab diff for lot H-2814: 98.6% vs 99.2%. Within expected range.

TF

somebody said the easy way thing to me and i just said it was not easy and changed the subject. it worked fine, still working it out

the running out anxiety is real and worth naming. i keep a spare month in the fridge and i sleep better for it

TT

right so how do you tell family youre on this without getting a lecture back

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youre not a fraud

if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it, thats one data point

i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt

were not clinicians

the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards

thats grief honestly

BW

update on the earlier thing feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel

sorry to jump in we are a chat channel. good company, not clinicians, and it matters that we keep saying so

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the disorienting bit for me was realising how much of my day had been spent thinking about the next meal

people keep commenting on my body and i hate it, how do you handle that

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LN

i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it, not advice obviously

LN

comments about my body were harder to take than any side effect and nobody warns you about it

did anyone else grieve food a bit

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TT

unrelated but flat is the word i used too. not sad exactly, just less colour in things for a while

TT

i built a whole personality around being the one who cooks and now i barely eat, does that pass

LN

i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me

TT

while im here i came back at month 24 to say thank you and got a much warmer response than i expected

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grieving food is real. it was my hobby, my comfort and about half of my social life, your mileage will differ

LN

i read every twinge as something serious for the first three months and it does settle down

IS

you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story, ill dig out the number

Cited study
Effect of Continued Weekly Semaglutide vs Placebo on Weight Loss Maintenance (STEP 4)
JAMA · 2021
The withdrawal arm. This is the trial to read before you plan to stop.
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IS

does the quiet in your head ever feel like a loss rather than a relief

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unrelated but how did people get through a long plateau without giving up entirely

TM

motivation has collapsed since the scale stopped moving, has anyone been here

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TM

i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it

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SO

while im here the food noise going quiet is the thing people are least prepared for. i sat in the kitchen at 8pm not knowing what i was for

IS

update from 16 months ago: the flatness lifted, slowly, and i did not have to change anything to make it

glad youre back

VB

Archive lookup: thirty_min_wait first appears in this channel on 2025-12-18.

HS

the fraud feeling faded for me somewhere around the point i had kept it off longer than i took to lose it

TM

the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely

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TM

sorry to jump in nobody says you took the easy way about a blood pressure tablet, and i keep that sentence ready for when i need it
the identity part is the hardest thing about this and it gets talked about least, which is backwards

TM

i told my family at month four rather than week one, and the timing is what made it go well

Cited study
Effect of Continued Weekly Semaglutide vs Placebo on Weight Loss Maintenance (STEP 4)
JAMA · 2021
The withdrawal arm. This is the trial to read before you plan to stop.
VB

Reminder for lot_number_lou: dose day is today. Set 4 days ago.

LN

the food noise went completely quiet and i dont know what to do with the silence, is that normal

LN

my relationship with eating was the thing i managed and now i dont know what im managing

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BF

you are not the only person in here who has felt that, and i say that as somebody who was certain they were, happy to be corrected

hold on if you can

has anyone found a way to celebrate that isnt about a number

BF

thank you for saying it

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hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there

please talk to somebody

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