how long do you wait before chasing an unconfirmed payment
#payments 2025-09-22
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- VialBot — Batch lookup KP-0925: 6 independent reports on file, earliest 2025-04-04. 14:21
- meniscus_mel — do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution, someone check my working 15:38
- meniscus_mel — do you check the whole address or just the ends 15:41
- private_script_pri — paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it 16:06
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this
right so coming back after 21 months, has anything changed on fees
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no chargebacks
whats a reasonable network fee to accept
Batch lookup KP-0925: 6 independent reports on file, earliest 2025-04-04.
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post it in scam watch
on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily
do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution, someone check my working
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do you check the whole address or just the ends
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i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message
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i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time
paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it
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discount is standard now
wait for confirmations
genuine question there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one
sorry to jump in a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need
update from 23 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed