polite message usually fixes it
i triple check the address and i have still
Spun off from a message in #payments on 2026-03-21. 16 messages, 4 participants.
- lyophile_liv — i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time 22:23
keep the reference
is paying in two parts ever sensible
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this
a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try
thats gone sorry
there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one
is there any chargeback route at all
keep the reference
on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily
no chargebacks
[edited]update from 18 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed
stablecoin while pending
do you check the whole address or just the ends
coming back after 11 months, has anything changed on fees
the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to