ok so you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story, not advice obviously
#mental-health 2025-06-15
- protein_floor — did anyone else grieve food a bit 15:22
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- protein_floor — im at month 21 and doing well and feel strangely sad about it, is that a thing 15:37
- electrolyte_eli — the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight 16:20
- electrolyte_eli — did the flatness lift on its own or did people have to do something about it 17:44
it is a loss as well as a relief and you are allowed to say both of those things, i think
the escalation nerves got smaller each time for me but they never went away entirely
did anyone else grieve food a bit
has anyone else felt oddly flat since the appetite went
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im at month 21 and doing well and feel strangely sad about it, is that a thing
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anxious every time i go up a dose, is that a known thing or just me
i feel like a fraud reading the wins channel, does that go away
people keep commenting on my body and i hate it, how do you handle that
my partner was not pleased at first and came round. what changed it was my blood pressure, not any argument i made
i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number, take that with a pinch of salt
were not clinicians
has anyone found a way to celebrate that isnt about a number
the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight
i get anxious the night before a dose increase, so i take it in the morning now and sleep first
how did people get through a long plateau without giving up entirely
if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it
i cook more now than i used to, i just eat less of it, and that compromise saved that part of me
nobody says you took the easy way about a blood pressure tablet, and i keep that sentence ready for when i need it, someone check my working
same at week 5
mood dipped hard around week 28, did that lift for anyone
thinking of you
motivation has collapsed since the scale stopped moving, has anyone been here
comments about my body were harder to take than any side effect and nobody warns you about it
hold on if you can. week three is not the whole experience and a lot of us nearly stopped right there
the running out anxiety is real and worth naming. i keep a spare month in the fridge and i sleep better for it
feeling more emotional generally came up for me too and i took that to my gp rather than to a channel
did the flatness lift on its own or did people have to do something about it
be kind to yourself
is it normal to feel more emotional generally on this
the disorienting bit for me was realising how much of my day had been spent thinking about the next meal
i came back at month 3 to say thank you and got a much warmer response than i expected
somebody said the easy way thing to me and i just said it was not easy and changed the subject. it worked fine, anyway
the food noise going quiet is the thing people are least prepared for. i sat in the kitchen at 8pm not knowing what i was for
i spent twenty years negotiating with myself about food and then the negotiation just stopped, and that took months to sit with
how do you deal with somebody saying you took the easy way
i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it
how do you tell family youre on this without getting a lecture back
how do you stop reading every twinge as something serious
coming back after 21 months to say thank you, is that alright to do in here
does the quiet in your head ever feel like a loss rather than a relief
i see somebody professionally about the eating side of this and it is the best money i have spent on any of it
update on the earlier thing the shame eased when i stopped thinking of it as a shortcut and started thinking of it as treatment, i could be wrong
i told my family at month four rather than week one, and the timing is what made it go well