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#mental-health 2025-08-23

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Highlights from this day
  • tokyo_taper — while im here i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt, your mileage will differ 16:55
  • group_buy_gwen — the shame eased when i stopped thinking of it as a shortcut and started thinking of it as treatment, from memory 17:25
  • group_buy_gwen — if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it you are not a fraud. you took a… 19:38
TT

while im here i measured my waist and my walking pace during the plateau because both were still moving when the scale wasnt, your mileage will differ

GB

the shame eased when i stopped thinking of it as a shortcut and started thinking of it as treatment, from memory

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TT

i told my family at month four rather than week one, and the timing is what made it go well

we are a chat channel. good company, not clinicians, and it matters that we keep saying so

ok so the plateau nearly ended it for me. what got me through was logging something other than my weight

TT

i asked one relative to stop commenting. it was awkward for a week and it was worth it

update on the earlier thing how do you tell family youre on this without getting a lecture back

same at week 5

the quiet is strange isnt it

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follow up how do you stop reading every twinge as something serious

GB

the fraud feeling faded for me somewhere around the point i had kept it off longer than i took to lose it

i am kinder to myself now than i was when i was heavier, and that is not because of the number, someone check my working

GB

if you are struggling in a way this channel cannot hold, please talk to a professional. we are not a crisis service and we know it
you are not a fraud. you took a treatment and it worked. that really is the whole story