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#payments 2025-10-15

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  • taper_or_not — what happens if the price moves between invoice and payment 13:19
  • taper_or_not — if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel, from memory 14:37
  • orfor_watch — nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this 14:52
  • vial_ledger — i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time, for what its worth 15:40
TO

there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one

MU

network fees were higher than the discount, has anyone done that maths
the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume

TO

i wait for the confirmations the supplier states and then one more before i chase anything

the room holds no money, brokers nothing, and runs no escrow. that has never moved

TO

a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try

keep the reference

CP

on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily, not advice obviously

wait for confirmations

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TO

refunds do happen and they are slow and awkward. do not count on one

quick one a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that
a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try

OW

paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it

TO

do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution

if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel, from memory

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OW

work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it

stablecoin while pending

i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message

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polite message usually fixes it

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quick one i keep every transaction reference in a note with the order. it has been useful twice

the mods stop escrow conversations immediately and they are right to

do you check the whole address or just the ends

how many confirmations before a supplier usually marks it paid

nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this

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VL

i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time, for what its worth

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coming back after 24 months, has anything changed on fees

NA

update from 17 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed

the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume

thats a scam pattern

PP

right so thats gone sorry, ask me again in a month

triple check it

no escrow here

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