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#payments 2026-03-03

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Highlights from this day
  • customs_owl — is a bank transfer ever an option and is it a bad idea nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this 15:50
  • two_three_lifts — if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel 16:27
  • belfast_bac — genuine question do not send a test payment to prove anything to anyone. that is a pattern, not a precaution 18:06
  • non_scale_win — nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, thats just me 18:57
  • two_three_lifts — on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily 18:58
CO

is a bank transfer ever an option and is it a bad idea
nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this

if you are asked to pay a second time because the first "did not clear", stop and post it in the scam channel

TT

a wrong network transfer is gone. nobody can get it back for you and nobody here will try

CO

refunds do happen and they are slow and awkward. do not count on one

CO

i triple check the address and i have still had a moment of pure panic every single time

paying in two parts is sometimes offered and it does not reduce your risk, it splits it

NS

the discount pattern is roughly ten percent almost everywhere and it is a real saving at volume

BB

work out the network fee before you take the ten percent discount. sometimes it eats it

BB

check the first four and the last four characters of the address. every single time, no exceptions

NS

i have had a payment confirm and the order not update for two days. it resolved with one polite message

NS

a bank transfer leaves a paper trail and no recourse. people should know both halves of that

update from 12 months ago: fees are lower than they were and the discount maths has changed

TT

for the archive a stablecoin while the order is pending removes one variable you do not need

NS

nobody can verify an address belongs to who you think it does. that is the actual problem with all of this, thats just me

TT

on a small order the fee can be a meaningful fraction. on a large one the discount wins easily

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invoice says €38 and my total came out different, whos wrong

there are no chargebacks here. that is the trade you are making and it should be a conscious one